Sorry to hear Mrs csw is a tough turn around case. Some people are convinced things will never change even when they see bits and pieces changinging. They are from the "Too little too late" group.
Sounds like the mountain drive would you good. It might be cooler there and feel refreshing.
I am glad to see you have a good moral base. I think it will serve you well if your W returns or stays in her semi-WAW mode. You will always know you did what you could to save the M without stepping over the line.
Make some $$$$ at work and have some fun in the mountains.
