CSW I do agree that maybe it is time she see's the part of you that is angry. That yes you do love her but also that you are hurt and angry.

I would be distant but loving. You really need to be more mysterious. Give her something to think about. If she sees you as predictable a good 180 to do is to be a man of mystery. Dress up and go out. Put on some new duds, maybe change your hairstyle and be smelling good. If she starts asking questions and shows jealousy at all..Well in my opinion it will show love and desire for you.