csw,

While I don't think that "Anger" should be your daily mode to your W (I think it has rightly, and courageously been Loving Consistency), I do think there needs to be SOME righteous indignation in there somewhere. Even Jesus tipped over the moneychangers' tables in the Temple. I'm sure this can't be -- and shouldn't be -- forced, but surely there is SOME convo or recent action of hers that might have called for an angry response?

It just seems to me that she's being a crud, and you grow her asparagus.

Hang in there, buddy -- you are NOT alone.

Choc.