Oh....the old weight debate once again. There are three options: 1) Be happy with how you look 2) Not happy but doing something about it 3) Complaining, whining and making excuses. Only choices one and two are attractive or productive.
I am simply more attracted to my W when she is thinner. I think most of us are. My W is very fortunate in that her height and body type allow her to carry an extra 25-30 lbs that only the two of us know about. Even with the extra weight I am attracted to her but it would be even more so if it wasn't there. Before I get my head chewed off for being a "perfectionist", let me explain. See, I think we are all guilty of it to a certain degree. My W claimed to be very attracted to me 20 lbs ago. However, now at 6'2" 195lbs and lifting weights three times a week she is all over me. No, I am not complaining at all. She also said she didn't like big muscular guys but the bigger my muscles get the more she touches me and gets that lustful look in her eyes. It seems to be that we find our mates attractive all the time but they get more attractive as their bodies get tighter. It is either the physical look or the "confidence" that goes with it that is so attractive. Personnally, I think it is a combination. All I know is that I am never too tired to go to the gym because I love the extra attention it is getting me at home. In fact, we have recently started to go to the gym together. That's just good all the way around!
