JJ’s --------------------- I am attracted to out-of-shape ex-football player types and too-many-flapjacks-for-breakfast lumberjack types and any guy whose bigness makes him look kind of like a bear, but not guys who could be described as soft due to their overweight. --------------------- Men who use their muscles at some level, Alpha in personality, not the over weight guy (no exercise) behind the check out desk at the library are manly traits for JJ.
--------------------- habit of combing the hair on his leg unconsciously --------------------- JJ, Occasionally I see one UPS delivery lady that is about 30+# over weight, no visible make up, and has some hair on her legs. She is very friendly, acts like one of the guys, and everyone thinks she is a lesbian. The leg hair does not diminish my opinion of her sexiness because she acts so personable. I don’t see her under arms, but if she did not shave there, my opinion of her would be the same. In my mind she is a person who is motivated to serve “Her” customers and do the best job she can. I really like people that show motivation.
HP --------------------- All I want is for him to do the best that he can with what he's got. dress a little more fashionably….. wear cologne once in a while; I would feel better if he would take care of himself, because that would send the message to me that he is trying to appeal to ME. --------------------- HP I think I get that message at home. I was ignoring it sometimes. I am glad you wrote the above. It reinforces what I kind of hear at home. I will make a few changes you say you would like because I see the parallel between what you write and what BB says sometimes.
Julie33 --------------------- I complain that it is too hot or cold, tend to avoid outdoor activity etc. --------------------- Same here in the Lou house. W is too hot/cold, too cluttered, and on and on. Says if she had bigger boobs I would spend mort time with her and I am a guy that thinks attitude is more important than one’s physical makeup. My point (good attitude) does not sink in no matter what I say.
ZB --------------------- Her negative attitude about the weight does bother me though. I would have a hard time being attracted to (fill in your favorite sexy actress) if every compliment was deflected and if I had to endure a constant litany of complaints about how unattractive she was. -------------------- I think the same way ZB.
