Quote: I've read that some women subconsciously become overweight because they don't want to be desired just for their bodies
JJ, may times I've wondered if this isn't at least part of the reason for W's weight gain. At only 5'0", the 120 she weighed when we got married was still chunky - but it wasn't until our SL floundered so miserably that she really got fat. I've often wondered if the fat isn't a way to avoid sex. If she's fat, I won't desire her, and she won't have to have sex. If that was a subconscious motivator, it sure didn't work.