HP taking care of 90+ year old women and getting used to some of their folds, eventhough not that much over weight, paints a picture in your mind, that the 50/60 year old body is not that bad if less than perfect. I guess you have to be past a certain age to get over the need for hot bodies. I heard there is a mental shift away from hot bodies to warm minds in some guys after they reach 45/55.

About your or anyones weight. I am not giving advice but offer my opinion. Does the so called extra weight effect your health? If so work on getting rid of the extra pounds.

Point two If looks were the grand prize and it took good looks to be a good mom, how many plain looking moms/wives would be wrongly disqualified?

The job pressures, office/shop politics, and feeling undervalued at work at times, unfortunately did carry over to my home life when times were tough. Here is hoping Mr.HP is going to be working where he is valued and paid appropriatly.

Lou