Jenny, Good point. I think my H's job difficulties of the last 3 years have made him think less of himself, less "manly", etc. and I'm sure that affects his overall feeling of sexiness or potency as a man.
I realized last night that I need to get over my pissiness about his preference for thinness but I am still letting it percolate in my brain. Any suggestions are welcome. I desperately wish he was a guy like OGLou who says Hey cold pizza is still good pizza. Unfortunately I know that when I was cold pizza, the sex was quite scarce in my home. Even now, I know that if I were to heat this pizza up more than it is now, he'd be way more interested. Right now, I'm at a point where I can eat freely, including an occasional dessert, and my weight stays constant. To get to the HOT pizza stage I would need to cut out the desserts and, well, pizza LOL and really crack down. I am frustrated with myself for not achieving this goal, as well as frustrated with him for being narrowminded about what is attractive.
