Jo, Out of all these people, your XH, OW1 & OW2, his relatives and his friends who will achieve great things, maybe even fame?? You are the one who has the talent, dedication and the smarts to make it big!!!!!
Jo don't let anything that Andy has done or may do stop you. If you concentrate on writing books, getting them published and promoting them, you will have the money needed to get more visitation of your children.
When you have written a best seller, the courts will see that you are the parent who has things going for you. You will be someone that people look up to, not a crazy person like Andy throwing fits and trying to drive over people.
Jo, I hope I don't offend you, but it is obvious to me that you deserve much better than him. I know we are on a DBing site, but please focus on your talents and don't let anything he does bother you. Leave him in the dust! Imagine what you could do if you get to a point where nothing Andy does interfears with your life?