I made this really tactless joke the other day about thanksgiving day to my friend's American bf and everybody sort of looked round and cringed. I was only kidding, tho
I know exactly why my X has been so angry and exactly why he got OW2 so suddenly. Its because he broke it off with me and he feels hurt and his internal emotions are all over the place. I believed him when he said ILY, I think he does and underneath it all, he knows it, but he doesn't want to.
So he fights it, first by getting angry and then by trying to fall in love with another woman (it's exactly the same thing he did after we lost our baby and he admitted that's why he did it at the time).
He will drop her once he realises he doesn't love her, or she will drop him. I almost guarantee that by the end of August that will be dead in the water, I just know it.
The thing that bugs me is the kids, as always, but I can't do anything about it as it just increases the animosity.
I ended my book in March 05 when he said ILY, so I didn't actually say we got back together, just that he said ILY. It kind of leaves it open to interpretation. Therefore he couldn't spoil my story, it all happened.
With it being open, I could even do a sequel if he does anymore dramatic stuff, LOL. I know he is definitely intimidated by the book, though, as he asked for the children's names to be changed so the public won't know which family we are (I'm not).