I am going to London in November, but it might comfort you to know that I can't use the underground because of my disability (there is no disabled access to the underground).
I will be travelling there by bus and will be on foot everywhere once there so unless they place bombs in the bus depot, I'll be alright.
It's probably the IRA - they are always bombing London.
Re Andy, I find it impossible to separate his affair from my girls because he always makes it part of the whole picture, i.e, calling his OW 1 and 2 'step-mother' - OW 1 even testified against me in court at the custody battle and she is the reason I don't have them because they were going to give me custody but then changed their mind because he said he was a 2 parent family and they said I couldn't offer them as much on my own.
His OW's are therefore everything to do with my girls.
Re the being civil, well I've done that for 3 years, I was even civil to OW 1 when he said he was sending her instead because he 'couldn't face me' (his words). It seems that whenever I am agreeable with him he either thinks I'm being civil to get him into bed (he said so) or that I am a 'push over' by being agreeable (OW1 said so).
I am so sick of trying to be nice to someone that treats me like [censored] that I'm ademant I'm not giving him the time of day until he treats me better.
I have NEVER not spoken to him before so I am hoping it will give him a bit of a jolt.
