Andy sounds like he's kicked into a major manipulation mode. No worries - he'll soon burn on the new R.
It sounds like you're not 'feeling' the desire to keep DBing, yet this might be the very mindset to help you sit tight and allow distance while you get on with your work, etc...
All your GAL work will help you to be kind, sensitive, and neutral - increasing the odds for positive interactions for the benefit of your R with the girls - when he comes round next.
LOL 
