You are having a terrible day. I feel for you. Your X seems to have completely lost it. He is even exasperating me now and I live across the ocean from him. Aarrgh!
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.