Further update:

Just checked my answerphone and there was a voice text from X.

I had never even heard of a voice text! Didn't know you could do that. Anyway, this autonated voice said 'what suggestions do you have for contact with Alicia this weekend? Andy.'

The guy is soiling his drawers now, LOL I have left my cell phone permanently switched off since I came back from my friend so he can't get me on that. I haven't even checked for messages on it.

Don't intend to answer his voice text (not even sure how) and I wrote my contact suggestions in that email so he can just wait till he gets home and then read the email I sent him.

Well at least I know he hasn't drowned, LOL

Jo.