Today X phoned. I thought it was my lawyer or work so I answered.

He said we need to talk. I said no we don't, I've got nothing to say to you. He said we do need to talk, we can't go on like this, we have to communicate for the children.

I said it's too late, I am done trying to communicate with you. I have spent 3 years trying to communicate with you and as far as I'm concerned it's over, finished, dead and way too late.

He said we still have to get on for the kids. I said I don't HAVE to do anything.

He said he had tried to contact me over the weekend and I was ignoring him. He said that he'd said sorry.

I told him that it didn't matter anymore, I wasn't bothered if he was sorry. I'm done and he can say what he likes because I'm not interested. I said that he just totally disrespects me and always has since he left and that he thinks he can just apologise and I'll be sweet after he has done that and kicked me and sworn at me etc in front of our children.

He denied kicking me so I reminded him of what happened and he admitted to putting his leg out and stopping me from walking but then started to try and justify his actions again so I put the phone down on him.

A minute or so later the phone rang again and I answered. He said 'it's me.'
And I put the phone down again straight away.

No more, no more.