I've grown closer to God ever since we separated in May04 - it is a process of reading your bible, praying, and going to church, hanging out with brothers and sister in Christ.
I do have a peace about this whole situation - there are times when I get upset, but not very often.
Jeremiah 29:11-13
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.