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I may be missing something here, but I still think this all hinges on whether or not W has any desire to become a better lover. If she’s not interested in making the effort, what does it matter what I




ZB, have you and your wife ever had any other areas where you disagree? Do you ever have disagreements about which restaurant to eat at, whether or not to remodel the house, which car to buy, whether or not to allow one of the kids to go whereever - that sort of thing? What is the dynamic when the two of you have *any* difference of opinion the necessitates a choice?

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