Quote: I get the impression that she feels like she is a bad lover, not just because she is unwilling to try different things, but because the whole enterprise just creeps her out.
BINGO!!! My feeling exactly. Those of you who’ve been here long enough might recallthe story about the couple boinking in the car parked next to us at Daytona Beach. If you’ll remember, that’s when the little light bulb over my head finally came on. W think sex is “gross”. Not BJ’s, not sex in cars, just sex. And you were right again when you said, “These issues were probably there long before ZB got there.” I’ve said that on this board too. That goes back to several old threads about her FOO and the alleged sexual abuse by her older brother. Way too much to rehash here.
MrsNOP
Quote: Of course, this indicates that your wife does talk and/or express opinions about sex publicly - it just appears that it's primarily in a negative sense.
You know that's not a good thing. Have you ever heard her do this? What was the sitch and what was said or implied?
I’ve heard her say things many times, but now that I’m in the spotlight, I’m having a hard time coming up with details. The only thing that comes immediately to mind is the story I just cited about the couple boinking in the car. W and the kids were still at the beach and she sent me back to the car to lock up the camera and camcorder. The couple were doing it in the car parked right next to us. I told W about it, but all she got out was, “that’s disgusting” before the kids interrupted. I know there have been many, many more, but that’s the only specific one that comes to mind.
And special thanks to all of you who replied. This would be way too long if I quoted everything that made me say, “Yes! That’s right!” So consider this as having said that in lots of places.
