I tried to post in the thread “actions and words”, but somehow it wouldn’t let me.
Since I found some of you here, I’ll tell you here thank you for all of your words of real, struggling wisdom on the very day I needed to hear them.
I am in the midst of a spiral of separation (divorce?) pain, confusion, trying to understand. Stumbled (coincidence?) on DB book in a used book store, and had the weekend to devote to reading and thinking. A few weeks ago I thought I’d seen a link to this website when searching for practical legal info to help me figure out where I am since my H left. Didn’t pay much attention to it until today, and then started to search the boards.
Choc, I am in awe of what you are doing, and of your willingness to share in the “actions and words” thread. Though I am not your W, and my life and responses are very different, you are articulating so many things I think my H is feeling, and only rarely and ineffectively communicating. You’ve given me so much hope, and maybe I can give you some insight in return.
I believe there’s a better way than to give up. Thanks for giving me that bit of hope, all of you, Michele and posters.
