You could be right, but I think we're getting ahead of ourselves if we wonder what her response would be.
So far, ZB *has* let her off the hook.
And so far, ZB has *not* given MrsZB some examples of simple things she could do to reciprocate.
He has resolved to do things differently. Let's see how that works.
Very often the roles in marriages become polarized - in some cases it may result in a fair division of household, parenting, or other labor. But if one partner takes all the responsibility for the sexual relationship AND the other doesn't reciprocate, then ultimately the partner in charge isn't happy.
MrZB needs to begin to communicate this to his W, along with some simple suggestions of things she could do.
Also, I think MrsNOP's suggestion that he tie it in with presenting a more normal attitude torwards sex to their daughters was good too.
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