What an interesting observation. Sometimes when you write, I am just glued to every word because I find it so fascinating.
I'm sure that MrHP feels similar. That he is just not your typical "alpha" male and will never measure up. The truth, Mrs, is that I am not particularly attracted to alpha males. Well, I'm attracted enough to them physically or whatever, but have a hard time in a relationship. So I want and like MrHP's brand of sexiness and aggression. But somewhere along the way, he started feeling awkward about showing this side of himself--I'm sure we both did things to contribute to this situation. (in fact, I can think of specific things I did to drive his aggression south but I am too embarrassed to print it)
Anyway, what I wanted to say is that I like his style of aggression. I do not and never have wanted alpha male type aggression. If you have any suggestions for how to communicate this--should the topic come up again for discussion--please do not hesitate to tell me what to do.
Again, thanks for sharing this. How interesting to see "the other side".
Incidentally, I am not sexy in the way you described either. I'm not particularly graceful in my body movements. If I had thought that my husband was referring to that kind of sexiness, I'd have been way intimidated myself.
