ZB and all other HD people trying to get your LD spouse to talk about sex:

Now this IS baby steps but, I think, worth trying. It's just like back scratching...You could learn a lot about their preferences if only you could get them to tell you these simple moves when you ML:

Higher
Lower
Faster
Slower
More to the right
More to the left
Harder
Softer
JUST RIGHT!

You get the idea, I'm sure.


OliveJuice