Zbube,
I hope you are smoothing over her weird attitude about sex with your D's cause I would sure hate to have them grow up and experience the obvious pain and awkwardness that your wife goes through, with their own husbands.

I know that was my number one motivation, aside from the obvious motivator, in attacking this situation. I could not tolerate the thought of my daughter being more used to, and comfortable with the idea of her dad giving her his attention and affection, to the exclusion of his wife. I wanted her to grow up seeing us being affectionate with each other and knowing that we had the hots for each other. Otherwise I felt that we would be failing her.