Quote: Still trying to figure out a way to help her over her hangups about sex. I'm all ears if you have ideas. Mrs.NOP? Right now I am trying to encourage her to tell me what she thinks of when she thinks of sex or what she'd like to try different, etc. So far very little response other than a hint that she does have those thoughts occasionally...that alone is a major breakthrough folks!
Something to ponder since you have children is whether or not you want your children experiencing the same difficulty that you do with this topic. I think we would see our mamma bear gene kick in if we thought about our own daughters being this negatively impacted in their future marriages.
I'm a firm believer that responsible parents have to push through their own personal hangups, whatever they might be, in order to not embue their children with a butt-load of unnecessary baggage.
Does she refuse to discuss sex at all? I mean sex in the generic sense, not sex as it pertains to your own relationship.
