Quote: NR, I have a choice. I can wait for a sexually nuanced feeling to hit me before I act, or I can delight in my husband physically and enjoy the closeness, the caresses, the tingles and the orgasms we share.
It boils down to whether or not this person is important enough to me to make the effort. That may sound cold, but it is the bottom line. *You* need to make sure that you aren't doing anything that would hinder her in wanting to make that choice.
MrsNOP, that is as succinct and as definitive as anything I've ever read on this Board. Well-stated, both ways!
