Yes, I do touch her during foreplay. If you remember from my blow-by-blow account of a typical encounter, it always starts with light caressing of non-sexual parts. If I’m not rebuffed, it gradually increases to include the odd brushing of the sides or bottom of the breasts. If I’m still not rebuffed, it gradually increases until I’m concentrating on the good parts. This is a pretty protracted process (not to mention alliterative). We don’t get to oral until there have been fairly extensive breast and manual clitoral stimulation. The JGI method gets rejected every time, even well into the process. Everything is gradually increasing intensity and focus – with the possibility of being rebuffed at any point. Sometimes she’ll accept breast stimulation, but starts the wax-on/wax-off when I try to touch anything in the pubic area.
Flat on her back is the usual position. It varies on occasion, but flat on her back probably covers 99%.
Yes, her weight bothers her. A lot. She’s always denigrating herself over her weight. She’s constantly saying that she needs to do something about losing weight. She keeps saying that she could probably get off of insulin if she would lose some weight. So it is a big issue. I do think it contributes to her feeling that she’s no good at sex, but that’s not all of it.
