ZB, I think you may be onto something here. MrsGGB has weight issues which are giving her a negative self-image. I think that has a very direct bearing on how sexual she feels. She doesn't see herself as attractive, and by extension feels that no one else should see her as attractive either. The next logical leap, from what i've been able to gather, is that if she isn't attractive and I'm still asking for sex, then the only reason I want it is to "get off", not because I want to give her pleasure. In her mind, her body is gross and she doesn't want to inflict that on me. You can see where that line of thinking goes pretty quickly. The trick, I think is to figure out a way to make her feel attractive and therefore better about herself. Hard when she refuses to buy or allow me to buy her clothes when she thinks it is a waste of money buying clothes she doesn't want to fit in. Thing is, by not feeling good about herself, she isn't finding the motivation to do anything about her weight either. I think if I could bootstrap the process by making herself feel good about herself, the good feelings would then provide some motivation to improve herself, and then the improvements would make her feel better etc.
Anyone have suggestions on sexy plus sized nighties that might help the wearer feel sexier?
