Quote: As a general rule, an O when the vagina is empty feels deeper and stronger, I guess because the contractions can contract farther since nothing is blocking them.
Thanks LilliePerl. That is a very interesting concept; I never thought of that particular reason. I think I will try and ask WS about it, although I guess I will have to couch it in very careful terms (I don't want her to think I am discussing our sex life with total strangers without her knowing about it).
I didn't mean to imply that something was normal or not normal. I was just giving my experience. I have been struck by descriptions of male/female orgasms and intercourse in literature (classical and popular fiction) and how the descriptions never match my and my WS's experience. Whenever my WS reaches two orgasms, first through clitoral stimulation, second immediately after from intercourse with her, she seems to react more strongly and passionately to the second. I have always assumed this was because the buildup led to a second, stronger orgasm. I will bring up the "empty vagina" aspect and see what she says.
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms, 1929.
