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3) It shows DESIRE!!!!!! It is in effect the breaking point between HD and LD women. It shows a love of sex!!!

I beg to differ. W & I haven't had sex since we conceived D7. During that 4 month "conception period", when we had sex ~6x/mo., W & I regularly exchanged oral as a part of foreplay. She has no hangups about oral per se, but she has absolutely no desire for sex.

I think it's possible to have desire, but prefer not to do oral because one finds it distasteful.

Pun intended.

SM

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