MrsBube also has a rather, umm, large stomach. When she's on top, she also leans rather heavily on her hands. She's either leaning forward so her stomach completely blocks access to the bits, or she's sitting more upright, but has my elbows on the bed and is holding my hands and putting a lot of weight on me. But even if she weren't holding my hands, she's still not leaning back far enough that I would have access to the bits. Her stomach is large enough that when she's standing naked in front of me, I can't see any pubic hair (and no, she's not shaved). Think female Michelin Man.
So far, W has flatly refused rear entry. But even if she tried it I don't think I could reach all the way around to the bits.
As Lou said, some people have very narrow limits of what they believe is acceptable sexually speaking. W is one of those. I know that's hard for you to understand as a HDW who likes sex. I believe that Lil's suggestion of "discovering" the starfish is my best hope. I may be able to work myself into something close to that position and discover it. If I can get her to accept it and then hopefully repeat it, I can then work on stimulating her during IC. But it will have to be baby steps.
