I agree with you, JJ.

I like to give BJ's but I don't do it very often because I have a small mouth as well. In fact it is so small that I had to have 6 teeth pulled when I was little in order to be able to fit all my teeth in there. It is hard for me to give them because I am always concerned that the fit is too tight and I'm going to hurt him. Deep throating is fine but I can't do it for longer than, say, 5 minutes or I feel like I'm suffocating.

Cemar, I think what you need to say is: I like BJ's and sure wish my wife would do it.

You are speaking for all of mankind and that's just asinine.

WB, I'm confused about not being able to reach the bits because of her weight..? I mean, if she's on top, they are right there, aren't they? You may have to shift some flesh around but they're still in the same spot, no?

This is an issue that I'd push if I were you. I believe that your wife and GGB's wife do not desire sex because they don't particularly enjoy it, as they are not being stimulated. I am HD, though, and you should certainly take my advice with a grain of salt. I wouldn't even consider having sex without stimulation, as a matter of routine.

What does foreplay consist of for you guys, if not stimulating her clit? I'm wondering if you could start with that and work up to stimulation during sex.