DeepBlue:

Pardone me for butting in here, but for me the purpose of a BJ is NONE of the reasons you stated. BJ's do three things for me, one, it is the best sex possible. 2) It is a VERY intimate act, for a woman to want to please me in such a way is HUGE in a relationship. Sure beats her treating it like a rabid dog. 3) It shows DESIRE!!!!!! It is in effect the breaking point between HD and LD women. It shows a love of sex!!!