Quote: The sex columnist who is syndicated in one of my local papers has stated that oral sex is part of standard sexual practice in our culture and anyone who is not getting any has the right to be disgruntled
JJ, HD cant touch his W's boobs, BB does not ewant to be touched amyway near her groun, I can imagine a lot of women have a absolute no go concerning anal sex.
So how does one justify if they are not receiving/giving oral sex they are being short changed. I think some people, and especially women, have boundaries in this area, that to them, are deal breakers. I am not saying you are wrong (you have a right to be unhappy) just want to have your opinion how a spouse goes from "no boob touching" (HD) to just having eveny missionary sex once a week.
My situation I am from the old school where oral was only done or asked for from maybe about 15% of the sexually active people. I try to respect BB's feelings concerning her boundaries about anything other than penis/vagins sex. Am I a chump?