Quote: Stimulating her during IC is another thing I would like to do but don’t know how. With the aforementioned weight problem, I just don’t see how it’s physically possible in the positions that are “allowed”. I can’t do it in the missionary position, and on those rare occasions that we roll her on top, her stomach prevents access to the bits.
If she lies with her bottom near the edge of the bed with pillows under her to prop her up near your height, you can be in a standing position with good access to the bits during IC.
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