Quote: Yeah, an instruction manual would be nice. You know, I do appreciate the effort W is making. It’s a big, big leap from twice a year let’s-get-it-over-with duty sex to once a week where, even though she doesn’t appear to get any physical pleasure from it, she does seem to get some satisfaction from giving me pleasure. At some level, I really feel like I should be happy with that. And a lot of the time, I am happy with that. But I’ve had both, and sex with a woman who wants to please you isn’t even close to having sex with a woman who really wants to do it. KWIM?
I Know EXACTLY what you mean. I am happy too with the progress MrsGGB has made in this department, but I go through the same thing as you seem to be going through, that is she gets satisfaction from giving me pleasure, but it doesn't seem that it is something she really wants.
We're in the middle of the abstinence period for NFP. Last night I got her warmed up when we were fooling around a little, and she got to the point where she needed me inside her. I resisted, as hard as it was to do so. I mean, gosh, I wanted her too...a woman actually begging me for sex, but it wasn't worth risking a pregnancy), I think that was the first time I've ever seen her begging to be boned. This morning I tried to explain to her that it feels like that to me often, even before I am all revved up. She doesn't believe me .
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