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What does that mean exactly? Has your need to only discuss an issue and not fight over it angrily gotten you anywhere? My ex husband was a conflict avoider. He loved discussions...prided himself on being able to stay cool and collected during a conflict and "discuss the issues." Only problem, nothing ever got solved.





Or is it the smug/smart @55 circular jousting that i encounter. NEVER adapting to the other point of view ever. Always the Cocky head tossing verbalizing. Bah..



Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay