Hello my name is lacknlvin and I’m a conflict avoider

So I’ve seen HDogs thread “Wallowing” and read NOPkins insightful (as usual) advice about the impact of conflict avoidance in a relationship. I’ve decided that I fit into that category and until recently didn’t realize the negative impact it has had on my life. In fact I might have booasted it was a good thing a few years ago.

So now that I know this is a problem how to deal with it…Books? Ideas?

I hope this didn’t make any angry

Lacknlvin