I'm a little late to the party, too, but hey... I'm moving a little more slowly these days.
Things sound really great over here - wonderful! You no doubt realize that there are bumpy roads ahead, but I think you're well prepared.
An aside: Will your W eat/drink soy products? They help relieve the symptoms of menopause. I know some people have a hard time with soy - getting used to the taste, generally - but it really works.
Again, welcome, and I look forward to seeing you construct the M you and your W wish for and deserve!
