I don't remember if you said your husband was HD, but here goes and what I say is not true of all HD men. HD men are made for sex. It is part of who they are, it is deeply ingrained into every aspect of their personality and lives. It literally is as important to a man as communication is to a woman. In fact, sometimes men use sex AS communication. It is the mans primary emotion. Screw with a mans sex life and you will totally screw him up. I would strongly suggest that you read the following book: Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know
It is like the owners manual for women with HD men. I was amazed at how closely I resemble the HD men this lady talks about i the book. If ou follow the advice in this book on how to treat a hd man, you will have a very happy husband.
The author also wrote a book about women so that men can better understand women. It's like 5 times longer then the man book, so what does that say? You know your in trouble when a woman author says that even women do not understand women.
