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the only way HD will be able to meet her conditions is to find himself no longer loving her and it might happen.


Well, this of course feeds into her whole abandonment issue with her dad, and the whole self-fulfilling prophecy thing.... Which I can't solve for her, or change for her, or fix for her.

I have been patient, I have been loving (when allowed), and I have been working on improving myself. When she tells me that she "knows" if I'm "there", and says I'm not, I used to believe it. Now, I don't.

Hairdog