HD, She knows you are not there yet because you still want it.
Being comfortable with hearing no is the same as not caring whether it happens--in her book.
Personally I think it is the biggest load of horseshiit I've ever heard.
The day she becomes comfortable with you saying "No I don't think I'll clean the toilets for the next 6 months" then you can talk turkey.
My next message will contain something witty so that your mind is temporarily distracted. No sense in spending this lovely Thursday helplessly po'd at W today.
Btw, I drank a cup of reallllly strong coffee yesterday and it reminded me of smoking a cigarette. I wondered if this was part of the appeal of roasting your own beans...? That strength or 'bite' that is mostly missing from store bought beans.
