Quote: I agree that the sensations are important, but a little bit of the right attitude can go a longgggggggg way and gives something to build upon.
I guess what I was really trying to get at was that sometimes it's better to keep the message simple. It might be productive if HD could convey "Let's not confuse the issue. You are leaving me because I want to have sex with you. Are you comfortable with that? Will you tell all our friends and relatives 'I am leaving HD because he wants sex more than 2x a year and icky tongue french kisses'?". Her position is unreasonable and somehow she has to come to see that.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
