Quote: Tell her it's not so much the sex as it is her lack of respect for your needs that's getting to you.
Wouldn't this be kind of deceptive? I've always gotten the impression from HD that he really does care about the sex itself and wants specific sensual sexual things to be part of his life like boob handling and french kissing. Maybe I'm confused but isn't it more fused to want your spouse to respect your desire to handle her boobs than to simply want to have boob-handling in your life? The other night when we were having sex, my H said to me "You just like the sensation, don't you?". I didn't make a coherent response because I was enjoying the sensation but my thoughts were that it's not exactly true that I "just" like the sensation but I sure as hell don't want to do without the sensation in my life.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
