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Maybe what you need to convey to your W is that you can love her and still find her behavior unacceptable.


I actually did this last night. I told her that I love her, and will continue to love her, regardless of whether she decides to step up to the plate (or the bed). However, there is the very real possibility that, although I will continue to love her, I will not remain in the marriage.

She said that there is no difference between the two.

Hairdog