I'm very sorry to hear about this Hdog.
Even thought frequency has improved in my situation, this dilemma is something that I haven't been having to live with. I too love kissing, but my wife despises it, she finds it for lack of a better word, discusting. The best she can muster is a closed lip peck, and I find her pulling away from that quite frequently. In hindsight, I have only myself to blaime, as I should have seen the warning signs when we were dating, she would try to coach me on kissing differently, such as keeping it dry, less tongue and so on.
But I digress, I'll keep you in my prayers.

God speed
Andy