I'm not sure what they talked about, but W called saying that, by August 4, she should have some "free time" to begin spending some time with me and DD3.
Oh golly.
My, big frickin' deal attitude came out, and I said, "by then, the summer will be almost over." She said, "thanks for throwing water on my parade..." and proceeded to tell me how she doesn't even feel like trying to be more affectionate "because it will never be enough for you"
W: It's like you said about having to clean or do chores and knowing that it will never be enough to satisfy me.
Me: The difference is, I go ahead and do the cleaning and the chores the best I can. Because I know it needs to get done.
(she didn't like that...guess you're not supposed to mess with someone else's analogy).
Further argument ensued. She said that she doesn't know what I want, but that even if I had a list, she could do everything on that list and I wouldn't be satisfied.
Me: I could make a list, and I would be satisfied if you even made an effort to do some of the things on it. For example, 'touch me, kiss me passionately once in a while...'
W: I am not ready to do that. Especially icky tongue kisses.
Me: Icky?
W: You know I don't like tongues...in my mouth, in my ear, in my vagina.
Me: Icky? Why did you French kiss me when we were dating, then? Did you think they were icky then?
W: That was different. There was passion and stuff back then, but now tongues are just icky.
This just f#*ckin' pisses me off. There is nothing I like better than passionate, french kissing, etc. So I feel even moreso that this is total bait and switch. WTF! So now, if I am to spend the rest of my life with her, I have to give up french kissing as well as: BJs, regular sex more often than four or five times a year, cunnilingus, making sexual comments or jokes. Oh, and I can only touch her breasts on those four or five times a year, as well.
