She looked at me again this morning, and said I looked like a terrorist. She said beards and mustaches are kind of "creepy." She said, "you say you want intimacy and closeness, but I will tell you that I don't think I'll be kissing you much if your have a beard." Of course, she wasn't kissing me much anyway, so I doubt I'll even notice.
As for missing my chance to say, "So, you found me attractive withOUT facial hair?", I assume that the issue is not whether or not she finds me attractive. It is whether or not she wants to grace me with her touch, or grace me with the privilege of touching her. I have no control over her in this respect, so I might as well do things for my own entertainment/amusement, such as, growing a beard, roasting my own coffee, reading, riding my bike, playing with the kids, etc.