RE: JJ
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The fact that our LD spouses feel like they're entitled to our faithfulness even though they don't make an effort to meet our sexual needs.



I see your point JJ and agree something like what you said does happen (both feel the other is not doing enough).

I also see where the LD is doing a little something, but not much, and S/he thinks s/he is doing alot, then sees the HD still being dissatisfied.

Its like the HD has not had a drink all day while mowing grass and the LD is inside drinking a bottled 7UP or Old 8oz bottle of Coke. The LD thinks the 8oz. bottle taste terrific and the HD lawn mower is thinking 32oz. iced tea. All the LD can think about is the quality of the drink because it is her favorite. The LD person puts too much value in his/her offer and thinks it should be good enough for everyone else too.

I will not post about those little sushi things verses a real meal. I hope you get the point.

Lou