Quote: How many LD wives do we see here on the board say, I knew he was unhappy about our sex life but I didn't REALLY get it until he left me.
HD, HP's post hit me hard. I see it written like this on many of the womens post where the H tried to work on the M but the W " didn't think the problems were that big." Now that the W is alone most of the time, now she sees the problems.
To all, How does one get his point across that the situation one is living in is not working without resorting to heavy handed tactics. Guys with ethics like HD, see the problems, address some in a considerat fashion, improvements are made, but some of the core issues are so intrenched, the SO feels justified to continue in the old ways?