Ha ha...great idea, Jenny. I wish this was an option. Would it involve handcuffs?
Anywho, HP, yes, the first meeting with the MC included me saying to her why we were there, which was our sexual history, from my viewpoint, and the fairly recent "boundary statement" that brought us to that moment.
I do not think that the MC is afraid of my W at all. I think she is just trying to figure out the best way to help both of us reach our goals.
Oh, and my 4 year old daughter's favorite joke is: Knock knock. Who's there? Icy. Icy who? I see your underwear (at which point she collapses into laughter)
